Getting along with one another!

Why is it that we tend to hurt one another by are words or actions. We are all human beings and we all have feelings and opinions, why does expressing them tend to cause so much drama????

Just the other day in one of our meetings we had a very heated decision, does things get done faster or better if we raise our voice to express our points.

During this discussion the vote to do it one way was voted by the majority. But being the bigger people, we agreed to contact higher up individuals to try to make this issue right. Well do to things we have done in the past we were able to do what we wanted, but not at a cost of losing the person that didn't agree with the outcome.

The thing that makes this so confusing and upsetting is because this one person said to all of us, if we find out that I'm right and you can not do what you want, will you accept that and do what is right, we all said yes. But what we failed to do is ask the same of that person, because once that person found out that we can go ahead and do what we wanted to, that person up and quit the whole system, not accepting what we can do as being right in doing so.....

This might all sound confusing, but think about it, this happens every day, we must always be right or we must have things our way. I was fighting for the justice of it all, only because I felt that it was the right thing to do ---- he was fighting for his justice because he felt his way was the right way.

In the end was it worth it? Who actually won the fight?